Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Alexander Grant with the following comment:
Possibility this is my 5x great grandfather-- Mary Berry was Alexr's wife and the dates all seem to tie in tho not heard of peter or john...tho they died as kids!! The family were in the Angus area in mid 1800's having come down from Aberdeenshire. I live in Forfar so quite nearby--Cheers Andy